NO PAIN NO GAIN

I was Ask if I was  A Wife what type of Wife will I be.............And My respond was >>

A marriage is a partnership, so in that case your husband needs to make an effort also.  

-Be sure of yourself, know your worth ----Something that I am learning day by day

-Always express your feeling and needs to your husband, don't always think that he knows what you want and what you need.  See one thing about us women we expect for the man to know, but guess what he don't unless you tell him.  Now if you have told him your needs and your wants, and their is no reaction, then at that time he is responsible for failure. 

-Don't expect the moon-----He needs to keep trying, you need to keep trying, but neither of you are perfect......Remember THAT :)

-Pick your battles -----YOU NOT ALWAYS RIGHT....DUHHH

- ANd MOSt Important have an ACTIVE SEX LIFE (Keep YOUR SEX LIFE INTERESTING) I don't care if your husband is a PASTOR----they can't go to GOD for SEX*****HELLO......Because what you don't do, the next WOMEN will come along and do it.

-Accept him---- Accept him for what he is, because let me tell you something honey, I don't care if that man is out their washing car, or sweep the street.  Because at the end of the DAY only by accepting him as he is, do you have such a deep respect and gratitude for him that you would never want him to change in any way for you.  Man is a growing individual, they grow daily - JUST LIKE YOU ARE

-Give what he needs WOMEN---- If he needs sex, give sex to him in a way he wants it. If he needs his space, give him space. If he needs time to be with you, give him your time. If he needs you to listen, listen to every word he speaks including his unspoken words. If he needs respect, give him your respect. The key is to learn about your husband's needs. Ask him what his needs are. Then, give without condition. You give him because you love him and he deserves to be loved by you.

- Don't always look for him to take you out to Dinner HELL you take him out ....

IJS ------ TRUST ME FOLLOW THESE STEPS THE CLEAN WOMEN IS OUT THERE WAITING---- BECAUSE I WAS HER ....DDDDUUUUHHHHHH

Now here is the TEE>>>>>>> If you have tried all the above, and an't SHIT WORKING.....HOMEGIRL it's TIME for you to BOUNCE, FIRST go BY THE BANK AN EMPTY THAT SHIT IT OUT

NO PAIN NO GAIN

SIGN, Lashaur

Foot Bling For the Summer

This Summer Try Foot Bling...............What A Way to Fashion it up for the BeacH.......I WILL

It's that time of year: The pools are open, families are headed to the beach and shoes have taken the back seat to sandals or barefootin'.

Bottomless thongs are fun accessories for poolside or the beach. They may seem odd at first but, once worn, they put a little extra into the idea of going barefoot. They make the foot look finished and complete.  So come on you guys join ME.....See YOU At The Beach...............

Foot Bling will be available @ Lashaur Nail and Shoe Spa 

FRIENDS....WHAT IS THAT???????

My Thought MY BLOG

Friends………..

Let’s see where I should start.  First- Friend what is the real meaning?  I took some time and look this word up, and it states that A Friend is a person that is attaching to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.  A friend also is a person who gives assistance and support.  They also are people that are on good terms with another, I person that

is not hostile.  These days it is so hard to have or find good friends.  Everybody these days are for his or her self.  I must be the first to say that I myself sometimes get that way.  But when you can stand in the paint and say, hey I fuck up, I make mistakes…at that time I feel that you have done your part.  One thing I can’t stand is for a person to sit around and try to justify to another party, about what they did.  Address your issue with self and move on. 

"Hate Me" By Kenya Bell by TheYBF.com

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"Hate Me" By Kenya Bell by TheYBF.com

Tia and Tamera Back on Style TV

Tia and Tamera Back On Style TV June 11 MONDAYS 8/7c

Twin Sisters and Best Friends, Tia and Tamera is back, with a docu-series on The Style Network...Rumors has it that Tia will be leaving BET Show The Game.  This is a show I will be looking forward too seeing..........Lata Folks

Be Careful On SOUTH BEACH FOLKS

In an effort to control crowds during Memorial Day weekend this year, Miami Beach Police said they will increase their presence in and around South Beach, The Miami Herald reported.

“What we’re trying to control is just the volume [of people.] We reach a breaking point that we just can’t handle,” Miami Beach Police Chief Raymond Martinez was quoted as saying.

In addition to putting paired officers on street corners, some new technological measures include cameras atop towers that enable police to review footage, as well as new license plate scanners that will check vehicle plates in a database.

"The tag reader is only going to flag if it's a stolen car or a stolen tag, or if the registered owner has a criminal warrant," Lt. Eduardo Yero said. "This will not go after minor warrants, traffic violations, things like that."

Police will also hold a DUI checkpoint on the MacArthur Causeway Friday night, the newspaper said.  To control traffic, Ocean Drive will be closed through the weekend and Collins and Washington avenues will become one-way northbound and southbound roads, respectively.

Police expect to make more than the 1,010 arrests they made in 2006, according to the Herald.

Memorial Day is Monday, May 28.  Last year, 22-year-old Boynton Beach man Raymond Herisse was killed after several officers opened fire on his car. Then-police chief Carlos Noriega said Herisse had tried to hit officers with his car.  As a result, several agencies, including the U.S. Department of Justice, will be monitoring this year's event. The co-founder of the Take Back SoBe movement also said they will be watching closely, the paper said.

John de Leon, the chapter president of the Greater Miami Chapter of the ACLU, said authorities went about the new plans the wrong way.

“Their focus this year is a mistake, and we’re looking very closely at the civil liberties and constitutional implications,” de Leon was quoted as saying.

Another ACLU representative asked why the new plans weren’t considered selective enforcement.

“There were people defecating on people’s dining room tables [during the first Urban Beach Week in 2001]. So on the events where people are defecating on the tables, we’re going to have a different approach than the events where they aren’t,” Commissioner Ed Tobin was quoted as saying.

Either way, the weekend party, which began in 2001, expects to bring large numbers to the beach – and city officials have their major events plan in place.

"Our city is very popular so we need to make sure when popular events happen here, our residents aren't impacted and we can get the flow of traffic and people are safe," Assistant City Manager Hilda Fernandez said.

A Sister's Accusation: An Onstage Confrontation

A Sister's Accusation: An Onstage Confrontation

Today On Dr. Phil

 

 

May 15, 2012

Could you forgive someone, even under the most difficult circumstances? Ashley says she’s desperate to reconcile with her sister, Aliciea, who has refused to speak to her and their dying mother, Terri, for the last three years. Ashley and Terri say the bad blood began when they refused to believe that Ashley’s husband, Josh, molested Aliciea’s then 6-year-old daughter, Destiny. Aliciea says she’s angry that her family “threw her daughter away like trash” when they backed Josh, who was eventually convicted of the crime. Having vowed never to speak to them again, Aliciea reluctantly faces her mother and sister on Dr. Phil’s stage. Can Aliciea let go of her anger and let the healing process begin?

 

Do you think you have a hard time with letting things go?  If So, I think you should go out and pick up TD Jakes New Book "Let It GO Forgive So You Can Be Forgiven".  I am sure you will find some answers.